In feeling compassion for those that are suffering, I don't actually stop their suffering, do I?
I am finding it difficult to separate and understand these thoughts - feeling compassion for those that are suffering (for example, war), and the fact that I cannot actually do anything about it. Part of the teachings seem to imply that there will always be suffering, however the attainment of nirvana by (for example) me, is not going to result in an end to the actual suffering of others. (ie, war is still going to go on, with or without me). So, in seeking to end 'my' suffering, am I not being utterly selfish in attempting to distance myself from the suffering of others?
This is coming from some discussions that I have had whereby I have attempted to be compassionate and then been criticized for failing to actually do anything about it.
I am not sure I have explained it very well, but I am interested in anyone's initial thoughts.